RoleConfig.confirm_policy was parsed but never acted on. Wire the three
strategies for how OTHERS' action requests are confirmed (the owner's own
requests always auto-run regardless):
- manual (default): ask the owner every time
- auto: run without asking — full trust — still fully audited
- remember: ask once per action verb, then reuse that decision (approve →
auto-run same verb; reject → auto-decline same verb)
- gateDecision(requester, verb) returns auto / ask / reject
- ApprovalRequest.Verb carries the action verb (remember key + audit)
- handleOwnerDecision caches the decision per verb under the remember policy
- applyRoleConfig fills opts.ConfirmPolicy; launchConnector wires + logs it
Tests: auto runs without asking, manual asks, remember reuses the 1st decision.